tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9181891804601841936.post4640703330038845373..comments2023-06-27T07:30:22.944-07:00Comments on Its not the way it has to go, just what I prefer: Boundaries are for Squares. Open up your Inner Circle.Greghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04217555044432302255noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9181891804601841936.post-50045667178616138912009-05-27T07:32:42.260-07:002009-05-27T07:32:42.260-07:00Interesting read.
It all boils down to what you s...Interesting read.<br /><br />It all boils down to what you said in the end. People spend to much time with "rules" in dating. I try to stay as open and honest as possible. Some dont agree with my way of doing it. I just hate wasting my time. I'm open about what i want and my expectations. If you dont meet them I will tell you. I expect the same. Rejection doesnt phase me b/c honestly I've dealt with it before. I'd rather go through the rejection than to waste time with someone who knew they werent attracted to me in the first place.Tupietahttp://tupieta.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9181891804601841936.post-61531440358633938782009-05-02T11:09:00.000-07:002009-05-02T11:09:00.000-07:00So this was a lot to read and a good amount to dig...So this was a lot to read and a good amount to digest, but I can definitely say I agree with this. I feel that a lot of females also feel that their vagina is just so top of the line that there is no way that any guy is actually trying to get to know them, however I also know of some guys that are so stuck on stupid they swear every female is trying to be exclusive with them when the female genuinely has no interest outside of friendship, however I feel that to an extent it's more a blow to a girls ego when a guy says, no foreal, I don't want to have sex with you. <br /><br />On another note, I appreciate the bit about being upfront from day one and not confusing people about what you feel, but I feel like you only addressed this as females flirting with guys, what about guys flirting with girls when they have no interest? I feel like in many ways that can be more detrimental especially if the act actually occurs. <br /><br />Overall this was a good post, def should send this out to a couple of my female friends who need advice on their sorry love lives. lol. =)that onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14545467034105385178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9181891804601841936.post-12899803524477577362009-04-29T13:13:00.000-07:002009-04-29T13:13:00.000-07:00Ok this can be perceived as a Male version of the ...Ok this can be perceived as a Male version of the Rules and females are just being allowed to tune in. That was a lot to digest in one sitting so I'll take it little by little. What happens in the case of role reversal? Oh there is a window of opportunity and for whatever reason the man/woman misses it? Where is the clause for that? As well, this is all well and good if both parties are following protocol, but what happens when you mix in a good bit of dishonesty a little bit of grandstanding or throwing sex in way to early?? Hmmmmm what you say is valid but every situation is subject sensitive. And as we all know some people are just more comfortable going through something before they start asking or answering the hard questions...Queen Of Heartshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01697948800345580911noreply@blogger.com